I am struggling here I’m having a hard time I need some help these are some of the statements behavioral health experts say you need to pay attention to statements like nobody's gonna care. Not all majorly depressed peoples attempt suicide. What we’re interested in what are the predictor of suicidal behavior above and beyond having major depression.

Suicide is one of the top causes of death in the world. According to research, nearly 45,000 people died by suicide in 2018. Suicide is preventable. And that starts with knowing what to look for and what to do.

What are warning signs 

People who commit suicide don’t want to die, but to end their pain. Don’t dismiss their talk of suicide as just threats. If you notice any signs that they may be thinking about harming themselves, get help. Focuses on death. Some people talk openly about wanting to die or to commit suicide. Or they dwell on the topic of death and dying. They may research ways to kill themselves or buy a gun, knife, or pills.

We have our ups and downs just like anybody else maybe more than anybody else. We can be hard to figure out and we like our privacy we don’t want your looking over our shoulder all the time but we know your loved one better than anybody else and if you think he’s acting differently than usual acting really down crying all the time for no good reason or getting really may not able to sleep or sleeping too much shutting her friends out or giving stuff away acting reckless, using drugs staying out late suddenly not doing stuff used to love or doing stuff that’s just not like him or her.

Most of us feel sad, lonely, or depressed at times. It's a normal reaction to loss, life's struggles, or an injured self-esteem. But when these feelings become overwhelming, cause physical symptoms, and last for long periods of time, they can keep you from leading a normal, active life.

It might be nothing to worry about. It might just be high school or it might be something more e might be depressed about just feeling down really depressed it might be that person is thinking about killing himself or herself.

It happens more than you think more than it should and people say I had no idea I thought it was just a phase he/she was going through I never thought he’d do it I wish he’d come to I wish he had said something I wish I’d said something when it’s too late so if you think your loved acting differently if she/he seems like a different person says something to say what's wrong how can I help and ask him/her straight out.

Are you thinking about killing yourself it doesn’t hurt to ask?

In fact, it helps when people are thinking about killing themselves. They want somebody house, they want somebody to care maybe you’re afraid you’ll make it worse if you ask like you’ll put the idea in their head believe me it doesn’t work that way it doesn’t hurt to ask in fact the best way to keep a person from killing herself/himself is to ask are you thinking about killing yourself and what if they say yes or maybe or sometimes well here’s what you don’t say that’s crazy don’t be such a drama queen making too much of this that boys not worth killing yourself over its not going to solve anything you’re just trying to get attention you’re not going to kill yourself what you do say is I am sorry you’re feeling so bad how can I help. We’ll get through this together let's keep you safe a lot of people think about killing yourself.

Adults and kids most of them never tried but some of them do so if that person says so I’d be better off dead I can’t live with us I am gonna kill myself take her/him seriously find someone they can talk to about it someone who knows how to help sometimes people want to kill themselves because something happened a breakup, a failure but sometimes it goes deeper and its not going to go away by itself get some help talk to your doctor or a counselor but don’t just let it drop and make sure that they always have someone to turn, someone, they trusts to make. Sometimes it's more than that if you think something wrong the only way to find out is to ask straight-out are you thinking about killing yourself.

What can states, communities do?

  • Identify and support those people who are at risk of suicide.
  • Teach coping and problem-solving skills to help people manage challenges with their relationships, jobs, health, or other concerns.
  • Make safe and supportive environments and stored medications and firearms to reduce access among people at risk.
  • Arrange activities that bring people together.
  • Prevent future risk of suicide among those who have lost a loved one to suicide.