First of all, Don't change yourself to please others. It's your life, your choice. You may be happy in the short term when you are able to please someone, but in the long term, it is unlikely to work out. Do things that make you feel good about yourself and give meaning to your life.
A life well-lived is one in which you go after what you want. Not what your parents want for you. Not what your significant other wants for you. Not what your friends want for you. What you want for yourself. That’s it. That’s the game.
You can change and become the most powerful and positive version of yourselves as well!
Negative thoughts could be thrown away
Everyone, consider the following: a person has around 60,000 thoughts in a day, and most are repetitious about what occurred the day before, one or several years ago — all mostly negative about people you like and dislike, things you want to do or not, and places you want to go and don’t.
Figure What you Want
Sit down and think about what you need the most. Is it your family? The freedom to express yourself? Love? Financial security? Something else?
Sometimes it’s hard to figure out what you need. So taking this Life Assessment can definitely help. By taking this free assessment, you will be able to identify what aspects of your life need more attention, and what’s holding you back from leading the life you want. Then, you can make a list of priorities. Also, think about the kind of legacy you want to leave behind.
Determine what makes you truly happy
There’s no waste of life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. Is it traveling? Being around children? Owning a successful business? Your significant other? Financial freedom?
Once you pinpoint the one thing that makes you happy the most, you’ll have a clear idea of what you should strive for in your life. In order to live a happy and fulfilling life, sometimes all you need is a solid framework that can inspire you to make a change.
Life doesn’t always go how you want it. Don’t feel dismayed as your plans stray. Take control. Instead of freaking out, try your best to roll with the changes. You will get there someday. You’re just taking a little detour. Sometimes a positive attitude is all you need to keep going.
"Prove yourself to yourself, not others."