There is something called Love is something called attachment. These two things are not at all connected. Try not to confuse attachment with love. Attachment is about fear and dependency and has more to do with the love of self than the love of another. The attachment has nothing to do with love. Love is like a flop. If you hold a flowering a hand you must be constantly aware of how to move your hands, you can’t speak like I don’t reply. If you have a cloud and you must move gently every move that you make wonderful is attachment is like a plastic flower because the necessary like and blossoming is not dating it but plastic flowers are very convenient. Love is not useful, love is a big nuisance in your life. It takes a life, it demands life but its life that’s the whole thing.

The feelings we get when meeting someone new are hard to understand at times. We have biopsychosocial and even spiritual responses and interactions with people we come into contact with. We’ve all met someone and felt like we just want to be around them. They make us nervous (butterflies), we can’t think straight, we’re self-conscious, we just feel overwhelming… pull toward them. I have (like many before me) spent my life equating this experience with the very beginning stages of love or may even go as far as to proclaim this as “love at first sight.”

Is it love, or is it just attachment?

We all have those friends who jump from relationship to relationship, and each time, they are “totally and completely in love." For those of us who have been single longer than two of their relationships combined, we can’t help but wonder how someone can possibly be “in love” with all these people.

Once attachment into my anxiety become once anxiety comes fear will come once fear comes madness is just the next step does it mean to say I should not care for anybody you become most uncaring only when you are attached it's not because of your attachment that you have become carry attachment means you’re desperately trying to identify yourself with somebody a group of people to make your life happen. This is it the tool, no I am deeply attached to these five people why that is the only way I can fix exist I am just trying to extract my part of them to keep my cell phone. That’s not the nature of love if you are complete within yourself. If you sit here you can sit here all dead, if you want to if you made like this now you can dispense with love effortlessly because you are not a wasted interest anymore.

You don’t need anything from anybody, you are so complete, your existence is not dependent upon anything or anybody only then you will be truly wonderful for anybody who comes near to otherwise, you are very nice to these people and you’re nasty to those people.